Memory Trigger 16 – The Walking Stick.

This article in the Guardian, naturally took me back to early 1981 when I had to start using a walking stick to navigate my way around due to both my hip joints giving me trouble.

For the past 36 years plus now, I have been using a walking stick whenever I leave home, even if it is just to our grocer across the road. I simply cannot imagine my being able to be without one outside my home.

Here is a collection of walking sticks that wait for me just near the main door to the house.


I pick one as I leave and choose the one most appropriate for the trip I am making. For instance, if it is to the local park, I will choose the black one with the strap, or the brown one with the brass handle if I am going for a formal meeting.

I have a few more stored away in the attic, notably a pair of elbow crutches which I have to use immediately after surgery for revision to the replaced hip joints.

There is a story behind the brass handled walking stick. A friend winding up his longish stay and returning from the UK to India, bought it as a gift for me in London. On his presenting it to me, I discovered that it was made in India, by the engraving at the bottom of the crocodile shaped handle! It went all the way to London and came back to me in Pune! You can imagine the embarrassment that it caused my friend.

One of the advantages of being with a walking stick is the readiness with which people help with seats, places in queues etc. It is also a nice way to identify myself to strangers to look out for a grey bearded old man with a walking stick. It never fails!

Does Time Run Out?

“People are usually pretty hungry after a funeral. I guess it’s because we all realize that time is running out and we better eat all we can. Please don’t mention that to my mother.”
~ Peter Hedges

In my humble opinion, time neither runs out nor runs in. It simply is. A concept. Our lives run in or out depending on how we treat it.

But to change the question to “Is time running out?” I would say, no, it is not but something else is.  (Please click on the image to get a GIF effect.)

Pravin has suggested this topic for the weekly LBC blog posts. You can see what the other writers of the LBC have to say in their respective blogs.  Maria, Pravin, Ashok and Shackman.

Bearded Persons, Beware!

Suddenly something that has been troubling me for some years has stopped troubling me any more.

Rarely, but plainly obvious instances of some one taking a dislike to me at the very first meeting, have taken place.   As I said, rarely, but they have taken place.

Whenever it happened, I was naturally upset as I couldn’t fathom why this happened.

Today, I learnt that there is a phobia called Pogonophobia.

I sport a beard.

I may not be able to do anything to avoid it but I can at least understand the reason why!

Am I A Sologamist?

I had to read this article  twice. I still find it hard to believe that someone can do this!

People have finally stopped asking me if I had plans for getting married again or getting into another relationship after Urmeela died eight years ago.   I however wish that I had known about this when I was being asked. I could have answered in a better way.

NUTS!