Girl : (To God) I don’t want to marry. I am educated, independent and self sufficient. I don’t need a husband. But my parents are asking me to marry. What to do?

God replied : You are my finest creation and undoubtedly will achieve many great things. But some things, inevitably, will not go the way you want. Worst, some things will fail. Whom will you blame? Yourself?
Girl: No!
God: Very Good, that’s why you need a husband!


Boy: (To God) but then what will i do. Whom will i blame….
God: your scope is much wider son. You can blame the govt, the education system, the environment, the slow growth, the fast growth, the economy, the politicians, the beraucrats, the infra, religions, beliefs and even me………….. But…. *NEVER EVER BLAME YOUR WIFE*

12 thoughts on “Blame.”

  1. Very good advice. Mind you, women don’t need to blame a husband. They can always blame patriarchy/male supremacy/misogyny/sexism etc (and they might very well be right).

  2. Hi Rummy,

    I support self-accountability, so I don’t believe in blaming others for my decisions and my own actions. That being said, my husband is off the hook unless his decisions and actions affect negatively our family (after I gave him a sound advice that would probably prevent the outcome, of course; because if I didn’t give him an advice and he messed up: do I have the right to blame him for whatsoever?).
    Although perfumed with humour, this subject is much deeper than it seems.

    Cheers, my friend
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