Six Degrees Of Separation.

All of us know about the famous Six Degrees Of Separation. This idea was proved to me by a series of coincidences.

I received a phone call from a gentleman, let us call him HP from my community. He spoke to me in our common language and syntax to establish his credentials and introduced himself as the cousin of a cousin twice removed from me called TM. HP said that TM had given excellent reference about me to him and that I was sure to be of help to him. I have not heard from TM in decades but was vaguely aware of his existence in Mumbai. HP came straight to the point and asked if he could depend on me to find out some details about a young man from Pune where I live too.

The enquiry was to establish the suitability of the young man as a prospective groom for HP’s daughter. This is not something uncommon in India where arranged marriages are the rule rather than the exception still. I said that I would try my best to find out about the young man given some time and then the discussion took on a different character.

HP wanted to know about my background and when he heard that I had spent most of my working life for a particular company, he was shocked and informed me that he was the cousin of a gent called TR who I had known too, and he wondered how someone like me could have worked in that company. He informed me that TR had been unfairly dismissed from service by the company following which he had died within a few years. I had not known about this as I was not in Mumbai where all this had happened and had already left the company to pursue other interests.

I was however intrigued and called up some old colleagues to get the story and was given the correct story about the dismissal.

The intriguing part of this tale is the degrees of connections that came up in the form of relatives, albeit distant and ex colleagues.

Remarkable isn’t it?

8 thoughts on “Six Degrees Of Separation.”

  1. I don’t often run into people like that, so maybe in my case it’s more like 12 degrees of separation! I didn’t know arranged marriages were still the rule in India. Do you think that on the whole they work out better than love-matches? Or worse?

    1. It has been my observation that whether it is arranged or love matches, the chances of success in both are about even. Fifty percent succeed and fifty either just prolong the agony silently or fail. Divorces are on the increase but, mainly in our metropolises while in semi urban and rural families they still are very rare.

  2. The connections you describe are interesting. I’ve been interested just for fun to see the degrees of separation I have from various people and have been amazed in many instances.

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